Guilt is the feeling that humans seem to enjoy. We all feel guilty at a certain point in our life. We feel guilty for our success, we feel guilty for chances we've had, and others haven't! And so, driven by this foolish guilt, we train to set the balance straight by helping those in need, by helping the weaker ones.
Some will say that they are not weak... Wrong, because the word pity automatically involves the word weakness. If you help a stranger (because, when you help people close to you, you help them because you love them), you feel sorry for him, you pity him. And, by doing that, you consider yourself superior and you want to help. It goes no other way.
All of the organizations which try to eliminate discriminatory actions end up encouraging and promoting discrimination. Because, in society, when you try leveling up, you succeed only in hurting the more capable individuals.
If you analyze rationally, you will see that a disability is only another attribute of a human being. We all have qualities and defects. Some of us (and I now, this statement will probably sound very cynically...) have a bad breath, some of us have a higher IQ, and some of us have no hands. It is just nature. If an accident happens, those responsible have to pay... But you see, a man can't be revived, a disability can't be fixed by a fine... And it is not right to blame society. No, it is right to blame those responsible - even yourself if that is the case.
So, let us stop with this permanent trying to make things right. Things are not right in essence. And it is not faire that the stronger individuals have to pay for the weaker ones. A society has to minimal and equal conditions to us all. Nothing more. We have to understand that, those who survive longer are those better fit for survival. It is the law of nature...
Don't start fighting with nature, because this is a battle that we can't win. Learn to rise above the small problems and concentrate on the happiness! Learn to flow with the water...